For now, just focus on getting her to say yes to drinks on Friday.It’s easy to make a big deal about how she’s going on a “date” with you.It’s amazing how great shoes can take a so-so outfit up to the next level.And just as often, a great outfit can be torpedoed by wearing crappy shoes. If you go in there expecting she’ll say no, she probably will. Literally imagine what it will be like when she says yes.The more you get out there, the more you increase your chances of a woman saying yes.Once you realize that it takes 9 no’s to get to a yes, the no’s don’t sting as much.You should be focusing on the moment and not flashing forward in your mind to a movie-montage of the love affair you’re going to have.Don’t get all dreamy about it—the higher your hopes and dreams are, the farther they can fall.
If your body language and tone of voice say “You’re so much better than me, I’m a loser,” she might just believe it.At least if you ask a woman to dinner, she gets that it’s a date.But if you ask if she wants to “hang and play some X-Box,” who knows what she’ll think?But no matter what they tell you, asking a woman out is as much art as it is science.Often, successfully asking a woman out comes down to that unquantifiable thing: mojo. That said, there are a few guidelines that can increase your odds of success when asking a woman out on a date: Don’t get too many steps ahead of yourself.