First I see her in profile, her dark hair tucked behind her ear. Walking over to the bar, with the hope of introducing myself to her, it occurs to me: What exactly am I looking for in this woman? I'm past 30, almost settled professionally, and I feel like it's been far too long since I've met someone I could fall in love with.
I'm out with my close group of friends and, of course, I see a very attractive woman getting a drink at the bar.
But now (and...is something I still have to remind myself to implement), if I just take a damn moment to focus... I can clear my mind and let it be refilled by the words of the woman I am speaking with.
As a result, I can certainly tell when the woman I'm with is herself mentally distracted.
In any relationship, one always does a great amount of emotional investment.
So, whenever a relationship ends, it is difficult for both the guy and girl to deal with trauma of a break-up if they were serious for each other.