As we have already said, the biblical standard for your sexual behavior is that sexual intercourse is reserved for the marriage relationship that exists exclusively between one man and one woman so long as they both live (see Genesis ; Exodus ; Leviticus ; Mark 10:6-12; 1 Corinthians –7:9).
The problem is not that men — whether single or married, Christian or non-Christian — do not understand this standard or are unaware of it.
In those days, sex was the prize that women controlled, and the only way to win it was through the commitment of marriage.
A was in place: the privilege of sex in return for the promise to provide and protect.
A recent Associated Press report said that people decreasingly view “marriage” as an indicator of adulthood.
Researchers have found that completing an education was most valued with 73 percent of those surveyed calling it an “extremely important” step in achieving adulthood. Those younger than 30 were the least likely to rank being married or having children as important criteria for being an adult.
Often, we justify our sexual activity on the basis of the commitment level of the relationship.When it comes to marriage and even buying a house, he said, “There’s more of an attitude that ‘It’ll happen when it happens.’” (Martha Irvine, “New Survey Says Americans Put Adulthood at Age 26,” If you are a single man, it is worth asking yourself, do you have an “It’ll happen when it happens” attitude? Is it indicative of what God calls Christian men to be?Of course, not all unmarried men are single for the same reason, or have the same outlook on their singleness.Besides, it’s cheaper than dinner and a movie, and loads more fun.On the other hand, our bodies agree with our culture’s assessment.